Get used to paying attention to what another person says, and as far as possible, try to get inside their mind. Generally, you must first learn many things before being able to judge someone's actions with knowledge.
What is not useful for the hive, is not useful for the bee.
From the things you have, choose the best and then reflect on how eagerly you would have sought them if you didn't have them.
Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.